RANDOM RANTS...
AND MY NEW APARTMENT!
Random rants:
First off, once again, keep in mind this is me ranting on frustrations (some cultural and some not), so please don't be offended (especially if you're Korean). I understand not every Korean is the same and many of the things I find frustrating at this point in time are simply because I was not raised with Korean culture. I'm hoping (I might even venture to say expecting) I will grow used to and perhaps eventually accept these differences I currently find so frustrating.
...And I'm probably not going to have many Korean fans out there, at least for this post and maybe a couple others (we'll see how often I need to rant).
Alright, so I've had quite a bit of stress this week. Not from the students, surprisingly enough. The students, although not perfect little angels (far from it if truth be told), are the least of my worries at this point in time. They like me, I like them. No problem.
Problem number one: the school organization. Ever since I arrived, I've had different directions being thrown at me from all sides (some of them conflicting). You can only imagine what this does to my already high stress level from trying to cope with situations I've never had to deal with before (i.e. teaching and working with young children). When I go to ask a question, I get an answer and follow through. But afterwards someone else tells me it was either outright wrong or part of it was wrong and that I should be doing it this way.
Problem number two: Korean mothers (again only the trouble I've seen with some not all). I heard before I came that Korean mothers can be, in short, overprotective and a bit intense. I came to learn in my first week of teaching that that is a gross understatement. My first day teaching, one of my students got a tiny little scratch on his nose during gym class (I'm talking not even half the size of a small papercut, probably closer to an eighth the size). After school, the principal receives a call from the mother demanding to know where her child got the cut. Really? He's a child! Children play rough, and children get hurt. Fact of life, lady. I might understand if the cut was an inch or even half an inch. So the principal came to me and asked where and how he got the cut. Thankfully I'd heard the gym teacher commenting on it, so I told her he got it while in gym class, though I didn't know how it happened. We've recently been instructed to write down any injury (even papercuts) a student receives in our daily reports. Not even kidding. Though it is necessary, I admit. The korean mothers are the ones providing all our paychecks. This comes along with working in a private school, and is one of the reasons I can't wait to transfer to a public school (that and the kids are older and will be a little easier to handle).
I know not all Korean mothers are this way because I work with a couple and they are always exasperated over some of the hoops they have to jump through to keep the students' mothers happy.
Problem number three: expectations. The school (or hagwon as private schools are called here in Korea) I work for is short two teachers. It's only a small school, so right now we have a total of six full time teachers plus the principal (who teaches when necessary) and, I believe, one part time teacher (who might possibly be turning full time...cross your fingers!). Because we are short two teachers, our work load is heavier (the "our" includes the Korean teachers as well). All the teachers, though we're supposed to be done with the work day at 6:00pm (an hour after all the students have left), stay until at least 7:00 but usually 8:00 and sometimes 9:00. I've been teaching less than a week and already I can feel certain individuals are frustrated with my performance, or lack thereof as the case may be. Sometimes I feel like I should wear a sign saying "new teacher" just to remind them because they seem to have forgotten. The other two English teachers came to the school with at least a year of teaching already under their belts. I'm not that kind of new. I'm never-taught-children-in-a-classroom-before new. They expect me to remember three dozen things they've only mentioned once in passing. Then you have planning lessons (which I actually can do, thank you very much) and creating homework. At first I would assign homework from the book because it went right along with what we were learning, and the students were more than capable of doing it. But that was shot down by the principal becuase the students weren't remembering to bring their books back. Okay, valid point. Well, after that I started making worksheets they could take home, but each and every one was, once again, shot down for one reason or another (I admit to my fault in that). Keep in mind, though, no one had trained me on "the art of creating homework," and my experience as a tutor in the past did nothing for that either. In addition to that, I've been trying to throw together worksheets in the limited amount of time I have while trying to leave the office before 9pm (I've actually decided that I will be out of the office by 7:30 at the latest each night unless there is a meeting or emergency that I have to stay later). I don't get paid overtime, so I'm definitely not going to be putting in three extra hours a day. The homework issue only came up this week, so I will be asking for someone to "train" me so none of my worksheets are tossed out anymore.
Well...I think I'll leave the rants at that for today, but you'll probably see one or two more in the future...or three or four...And now I need to apologize for seeming like a totally insensitive human being at this point. I promise I'm a nice person! I'm actually quite tolerant as well. Just ask anyone who knows me. And moving on!
My apartment:
Now that all the frustration has seeped out of me, it's time to talk about something happier: my apartment!
I live in a small one room apartment located above a pet cafe (isn't that fun?). The cafe allows you to bring your pet (meaning dogs) to the cafe with you. At times it causes a bit of a rucus, but they close before 10pm, so no problem there.
Here's the entryway. You have a little area to leave your shoes when you come inside (remember the whole thing of no shoes inside?).
This is what you see as you come in the door: my mini kitchen (and I mean mini). Mini fridge, mini stovetop, mini dish drain, mini everything. My only real complaints are that the fridge isn't bigger (I like a lot of fresh foods) and no oven :( No baking for Maelah unless I go to my friend's house all the way over in Seoul. Oh, and don't mind the dirty dishes; I just made dinner.
Next you come to the main room. On the one side you have my bed, and on the other you have my closet, my cabinet (which I've converted into a dresser of sorts), three small storage bins and a random chair (which I have little use for seeing as I don't have a desk or table). There's also a monitor (not pictured) which is connected to some kind of Korean cable network (Kdramas galore!).
From the main room, you have two other small rooms: the bathroom and the laundry room. The bathroom is probably the simplest bathroom I've ever had. A cabinet, a towel rack, a toilet, a sink, and a showerhead. Yes, you read right. Not a shower, but a showerhead. It's connected to the sink, and there's a drain on the floor, so you shower right there without a shower stall. Makes the bathroom a whole lot easier to clean, I must say. Although you also have the problem of wet floors every time you step into the bathroom.
The laundry room is the smallest room in the house, consisting of only a washer. And no, there is no dryer. So I get to hang dry my clothes (haven't done that since Hawaii).
And that, folks, is my apartment. Small, compact yet efficient and homey (pretty much the difinition of anything Korean).